A guy on the train ruined an anime for me with unsolicited spoilers, sparking a debate on fan etiquette
I was wearing a obscure series hoodie, and some random commuter started dissecting the finale without asking if I'd seen it. On one side, hardcore fans believe displaying fandom is an open invitation for unfiltered discussion, no holds barred. On the other, I think it's basic decency to confirm someone's viewing progress before dropping major plot points. This happens all the time with coworkers too, where one person assumes everyone is caught up just because they mentioned liking anime. I've seen family dinners derailed when my cousin spoils a show my aunt is slowly watching. It makes me wonder where the line is between sharing passion and being inconsiderate. Should public interactions default to spoiler warnings, or is the onus on fans to avoid sensitive topics? I want to hear where you all stand on this mess.