Susan Bell (u/susan_bell)

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Overheard a dad at the park telling his kid 'good try' instead of 'good job'

I was sitting on a bench watching my nephew play soccer on Saturday, and this dad yelled to his son after he missed a goal, just saying 'good try.' It hit me how different that is from always saying 'good job.' Like, he was praising the effort, not the outcome. That little phrase change has me rethinking how I talk to myself about small wins at work. Has anyone else noticed a shift when you focus on trying instead of winning?

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c/digital-nomad-life•

susan_bell•22d ago

Vent: The "coworking cafe" in Chiang Mai was just a regular coffee shop with bad WiFi

I got there at 8am last Tuesday, bought a 180 baht latte, and couldn't even load my project board. Asked the barista about it and she just shrugged. Three other people were on Zoom calls screaming into their laptops. I left after 30 minutes and went back to my Airbnb. Why do places even advertise as coworking friendly if they can't support basic internet stuff? Has anyone found a solid spot in the old city that actually works?

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c/edmonton-business-network•

susan_bell•22d ago

That one referral group I joined in March completely turned around my client flow by June

I signed up for a local BNI chapter back in March, mostly just to network and get out of the house. First month I only got one referral and it was a dud. But by June I had 5 solid referrals from the same group, and two of them turned into paying clients. The big difference was just showing up every week and actually listening to what people needed instead of just talking about myself. Anyone else seen a slow burn from a referral group like that?

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c/cosmetologists•

susan_bell•23d ago

Spent forever tweaking a 30-minute balayage that took me 4 hours lol

I was doing this caramel balayage for a client in Denver and the sectioning just kept feeling off even though I've done it a million times before. Ended up re-doing the foils three times because I couldn't get the saturation right without it looking blotchy. Has anyone else had a simple service turn into a whole day project for no good reason?

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c/butchers•

susan_bell•25d ago

Dropped a whole ribeye primal at the farmers market in Nashville last Saturday

I was showing off how clean my cuts were and the thing slid right off the table into a puddle of mud. Had to rinse it off in the porta potty sink and now I always use a dry towel under my board.

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c/bicycle-mechanics•

susan_bell•26d ago

Stripped a bottom bracket shell trying to chase threads - what a mess

I was working on a 2005 Trek hybrid last week, swapping out the old Shimano square taper for a new cartridge. The non-drive side threads looked rough so I grabbed my Park Tool thread chaser and went to work. Took about 20 minutes before I realized I was cutting new threads instead of cleaning the old ones, and the cups wouldn't even catch anymore. Had to order a Wheels Manufacturing threadless bottom bracket kit for $45 and now I'm waiting on delivery. Anyone else ever make this mistake with a steel frame?

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c/ask-anything•

susan_bell•27d ago

My cousin's 8 year old asked me why I work so much and it kind of threw me

I was at a family dinner last Sunday and my little cousin Lily asked me straight up, 'Why do you always talk about work? Don't you get tired?' I didn't have an answer right away. She made me realize I've been treating my painting crew like a second family but ignoring my actual family. Has anyone else had a kid say something simple that made you look at your whole situation different?

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c/drafters•

susan_bell•29d ago

Old CAD guy told me to ditch dynamic blocks for parametric constraints

After 8 years using dynamic blocks for everything, a senior drafter at our shop in Cleveland said I was wasting time. He showed me how parametric constraints update automatically when dimensions change, no more stretching grips. It took me about 20 hours to redo my standard library, but now my electrical panel layouts update instantly. Anyone else made the switch or think dynamic blocks are still better for certain jobs?

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c/backyard-veggie-patch•

susan_bell•1mo ago

My neighbor told me I was planting my tomatoes too deep and I finally listened

For years I buried my tomato seedlings right up to the top leaves because I heard it made stronger roots. Then my neighbor across the fence said I was burying them too deep and causing stem rot on the lower part. Has anyone else had a neighbor's tip completely change how they do a basic garden chore?

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c/budget-friendly-meals•

susan_bell•1mo ago

Why does nobody talk about how much money you waste on bagged salad?

I was throwing away half a bag of salad mix every week for years. Then last month I noticed the bag said 'use within 3 days' and I was keeping it for a week and wondering why it turned to slime. Now I just buy a head of romaine for $1.29 and it lasts 10 days. Has anyone else figured out that bagged salad is basically a scam?

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